f.r.i.e.n.d.s

i am someone whose decisions are easily influenced by others and jump to conclusions fast. which also makes me a fickle-minded person who keeps changing her mind and views.

i really ought to be less judgemental and give myself more time to know a person before i decide what kind of person he is and if i want to make this friend (or should just be an acquaintance).

i also tend to zoom in on one's flaws and based my impression of the person on that. but overtime, i realised that people whom i disliked have a good side to them too. and that everyone has a good/bad side and i should learn to accept a person as he is (but of cos some people are really just plain irritating to me and i really dun want to associate myself with them).

oh.. but there are some people who seems so nice at times but behave so differently at others, and that makes it so hard to know what kind of person he really is. today i met up with such a person. and i really want to be positive about it. because i feel that we are somewhat alike and you don't come across such a person everyday.

i also realised that i prefer small group outings, or even just two person, cos its really the only time u can pour out ur inner thoughts and have little reservations over what u say. and i conclude my definition of a best friend is some sort of like a soul mate: someone whom u can click with (or what u call 'chemistry'), who may not have the same opinion as you on every issue but who can provide you with a different perspective without the feeling that one is trying to prove the other wrong, and who is there when u need him, knowing when to provide advice and when to remain silence and just lend a listening ear.

disclaimer: i used 'he' as a general term for both male and female here