Pyrenees

Pyrenees

Tuesday, 29 November 2011

Thanksgiving weekend 2011

So I have been talking about looking forward to Thanksgiving break and I can say is that it was nothing less than expected.

Prior to skiing I have watched beginner skiing videos on youtube because I didn't want to waste money on lessons. It looked pretty easy but it actually was kind of difficult, especially for someone like me who is scared of speed and slopes - I don't know why I am not afraid of rollercoasters (I was before I worked at Cedarpoint) - but when I am the one in control of a speedy situation, it scares me. So the three thours before lunch, I was maintaining the pizza (skis are in a inverted v-shape so as to reduce speed) and my hamstrings and thighs were aching like mad (imagine maintaining a squat for most of the time).

We had lunch at one of the restaurants on the mountains and the only way down was to ski down a partially blue (intermediate) slope or take the lift down, We went with a group of boys who mostly skiied for the first time but they were game to try it. And of cos it was no problem for another couple who were snowboarding for at least the third time. Initially I felt a little pressured to go with them though I know I wasn't ready for it - I still haven't learned to stop properly yet! I guessed Tay C saw the uncertainty in my eyes (even though I said I could go) and reassured me that its ok not to go if I wasn't ready. So after some consideration, haha I decided to be a loser and take the ski lift down. I wished I was more daring but then I know if I were given a second chance I would still take the lift down. I guess in my opinion, sports is not just about having done something, but about doing something well through the right techniques, and I knew I didn't have the right techniques yet. I wouldn't want to get myself injured because I was rushing through something new I have just learned. And it is really all about having fun and not getting stressed over what I dare not do, right? :) I really like having Tay C around when I do all this scary activities because he always manage to assure me that I will be safe and that I will have a good time. He is always my best instructor :)

So after lunch we went back to the beginner slopes and I practiced my accelerating, slowing down, moving right and left. I must say it was a decent accomplishment that afternoon. I wasn't afraid of going fast (which means I do less "pizza" and hence less aching hamstrings and thighs) and could gradually slow down and stop at my desired position. But I will need to work on the cutting stop (where you stop abruptly and quickly by turning both skiis perpendicular to the slopes) before I could go on any blue slopes. All in all, it wasn't too bad for a day!

These are the boys who came for the trip. They are actually in different phases training in different places currently but have in one point or another been in Laughlin AFB for their UPT course. I think its great they are able to get together on this trip and exchange their flying experiences though really, sometimes I dread that all they talk about is flying -_-

Ah C was studying for 4 years in USAFA and hence spent a great deal of time in Colorado Springs and met a lot of great people. So aside from skiing, I think what both of us were even more happy about was to be able to meet these people again.

One of the most memorable places was Lemongrass Bistro, where I have eaten the best Vietnamese food to date. In ah C's USAFA days, he seldom left the academy because he was studying hard and at the same time saving money. The only times he was out were usually the time he goes to Lemongrass Bistro partly because he loved the food, and mostly because he enjoyed talking to the restaurant owner Dang. Their relationship was not of owner and patron, but more of a friendship built up over the years. This is also why when Dang insisted on treating on to this meal, we didn't try too hard to reject it, cos we wanted to acknowledged this friendship. Dang kept saying that this was very special to him and he was really happy we came back to visit him and I know Ah C felt the same way when he told me he wished we didn't go skiing and spent more time visiting instead. Though this is only my third time here, I felt really touched by everything that was going on. There isn't much words to describe the bond that they have, you just feel it. When they hugged goodbye and I could almost see it coming, that they will both tear. I know its silly but I couldn't help but teared too. It seems that Dang has had some tough time dealing with his health lately. Its sad when you see people dear to you, whether family or friends, getting weaker with age and acknowledging the fact that they will leave you one day. I wish we will have more chances to visit before we leave next July.


After Lemongrass, we headed to visit the Matheson family, who were Ah C's sponsors while he was studying at the Academy. Being away from family, the Mathesons played important roles in making him feel at home as much as possible. Apart from Lemongrass, he spent most of his time out of the Academy at the Mathesons' home. They are one of the nicest people you will ever meet in your life, and even though they are well to do and have a really big house, they are humble and sensitive and sincere - a family you can pick up many good values from. An unfortunate incident happened to one of their family members just six months back and I was kind of worried how they were coping. But when I saw them on Saturday and see that they are really optimistic and accepting it as another regular part of life, I was in part relieved and at the same time proud of the brave girl. Usually people who you have known for a long time are the ones who are closest to you. But occasionally you meet those who truly impact your life, and the Mathesons are a good example.

Colorado springs - I really wish we would be back again. In part because its such a beautiful place, but mainly because it is a place which holds many beautiful memories for us.

Life is unpredictable, but without plans, it is less

Setting up a cafe has always been my dream. When I was in Junior College, the idea of giving up a University degree and going to culinary school has crossed my life. I love baking and I love cooking, and it is always so satisfying when someone compliments the things I make. But I chose to take an accountancy degree in NTU in the end.

I guess I have always knew since then it wasn't a dream that could be easily attained. Not that I do not have enough passion for it, or that I am giving up on my dream. But there are simply too much at stake - I have more than myself to think of.

Things would have been easier if I came from a more well-to-do family. My parents are not very educated. My mum worked in the F&B industry all her life and became a housewife only 6 years back because my maternal grandma had a stroke and she had to take care of her since. My dad has done many jobs, of these I knew, he worked as a casino dealer, a fruit vendor, a bus driver and now a taxi driver. And he's getting old - he's 62 this year. Before I started work, the furthest any of my parents ever went to was probably Hong Kong - and that was only once, for my mum. Since I started work, I always try to help out financially on household purchases on top of monthly allowance. I pay the bills, I pay for new furniture. This year in March, I paid for their tour packages to Taiwan and Ah C was nice to give them some money for shopping as well. I was really glad that I was able to do these for them and I want to continue doing so.

Ah C can surely support me right now and takes good care of me. But because his family is not well-to-do either, he needs to help out with his family too. And it will be too much on him to take care of my family too if I am not working. I want to be able to give my parents a more comfortable life than they ever have had.

People tell me how envious they are of my life now, not having to work, living in a foreign country and enjoying myself. As much as I am glad that we got the approval for me to move here with Ah C and spend time with him after so many years living apart, sometimes I wish I was back home working and making money. I said this to another pilot trainee's girlfriend I met a few days back and she replied that "she feels life is more than that" - she is staying with her pilot trainee boyfriend in the US now too, I think she didn't really understand what I meant, that for some people, there are just more things they need to consider, and that some people are just luckier.

And as much as I don't think I want to do audit again, I really just might do that, as least for the next few years before I have kids. Because all I really want to do the next few years is to earn and save as much money as possible, bring my parents on more trips before they get older and subsequently dedicate all my time I have to my family when we we have kids. Ahhh.. in the end I am going to do it again.. at least I have this one year break as consolation, right? Cafe oh cafe, you just have to wait.

Well, to me, I am not giving up on anything, its just that at different points of life, there are different things to be done. I don't think this is procrastination, just that when you have less privileges and more stakes in life than others, you need more time than them to achieve some things. True that life is unexpected, but don't we always do things expecting it to turn out some way?

Tuesday, 22 November 2011

Life in Del Rio

I know it seems like all I ever do here is cooking. That is true to a certain extent - sometimes to cook something more elaborate, I can take up to half an afternoon eg. I made Nasi Lemak (first attempt) for four of us last Saturday and it took me like 5 hours - preparing the marinate, marinating the chicken, preparing the ingredients and making the sambal belacan (which failed so I used the commerical bottle of prepared belacan in the end), making the ikan bilis and peanuts, frying the egg omelette and cooking the coconut rice. But other than cooking, I have been keeping myself pretty occupied with other things I enjoy doing as well.

People here drive everywhere they go, because most of them can drive and have their own car. Well, both doesn't apply to me (since Ah C drives the car to work) so I walk to wherever I need on base, which are mainly the commissary (minimart) and fitness center. They are really not that far, about the distance from my home to the train station back in Singapore.

The walk home from the fitness center. Its a leisurely walk but becomes not so enjoyable when the weather turns cranky to 9 degrees and u have too cold a breeze blowing in your face.

This is my home from outside! To the left is the car pouch (or they call it garage here).


Last week we made a trip to Austin and went shopping at the Ikea. We bought a couple of things to "decorate" (or rather, just to make it less empty) our home a bit.

Ah C had some of his F16s photos pasted on the wall and I decided to beautify them a little with these colourful frames we got. Did you note the colour matching? It was unintentional because we didn't really know what pictures we wanted to put in the frames when we bought them. I am glad the frames served their purpose :)

We also bought this floor lamp for $20 (bulbs another $8) to give our living room a softer feel..although the effect it has on the camera doesn't seem so!

We go bowling about once every 1-2 weeks here. I really like the bowling facilities here cos they are very well-maintained. Sunday is our favourite day to bowl cos its family day and a game costs only a dollar each!

Fri and Sat nights are great for bowling too because there is cosmic bowling - glow-in-the-dark bowling with a dance club atmosphere with some wacky music - very fun too! Just half an hour drive from the air base is the huge and scenic Amistad Lake where we can go fishing, windsurfing and wakeboarding etc. We have been there once for a picnic but I would really want to go fishing or wakeboarding one day. But its just too cold for it now.


Other than myself time n couple time, I have been hanging out with some of the other spouses here too, and more frequently with those whose husbands are in the same class at Ah C. We get together for some fun activities once in a while. Among these, we had crafts night whereby we each were supposed to bring our own project to work on. I didn't bring any craft because the only "craft" I know is cooking and baking, so I brought a tray of cupcakes :| But these girls are so amazing.. I realised that they do alot of DIY furnishings, decorations and ornaments for their homes. That really inspired me and make me want to do up my house when its ready in early 2014! Just last week, as the guys were having a night week, we gathered at one of the girl's houses to make pizza. So one of the girls prepared the pizza dough and each of us just brought our favourite pizza topping. It was fun just talking about lives and learning about each other!

The left one is mine.. not very pretty but delicious!
I would really like to talk more about each of the amazing ladies who I meet here but I guess I will save it for another post. With pictures too i hope :)

Thanksgiving break

Because its Thanksgiving break this Thursday and its official break for everyone here from Thursday to Sunday, we will be heading to Colorado for a short ski trip with another 4 Singapore trainees who are here. It is the first time I am skiing and I am real excited! We booked this relatively new holiday house up on Breckenridge to accommodate all 6 of us and it looks like a really nice place. Hope the actual place is as nice as the pictures on its website..



And I am also very excited to be going back to Lemongrass Bistro in Colorado Springs for the best Vietnamese food I have ever had in my life!! (http://bakeandbrew.blogspot.com/2011/07/vietnamese-food.html)

Thursday, 10 November 2011

World's top 50 restaurants 2011

http://www.theworlds50best.com/awards/1-50-winners

Wednesday, 9 November 2011

Setting foot on Europe, FINALLY!

I am going to SPAIN!!!


But as you can see, Spain is huge and we will only be covering two regions over the 7-day trip - Basque Country in the North (mainly city of San Sebastian) and Catalonia in the Northeast (mainly city of Barcelona).

Basque (Pai Vasco in Spanish) and Catalonia are two of the autonomous communities in Spain, which is the way Spain is politically divided. The autonomous communities were created by integrating provinces with common historical, cultural and economical traits, hence one is would expect varying experiences when visiting different parts of Spain.

San Sebastian is renown for its food and has a high concentration of Michelin star restaurants. We are lucky to secure a reservation at Arzak, a three-michelin star restaurant which I got to learn about on American celebrity chef Anthony Bourdain's tv program No Reservations. I am so excited!!!

Thursday, 3 November 2011

Striking a Balance

i just chatted to my ex-PwC manager on msn and he told me to not make a decision to leave audit so soon as he thinks I am a capable worker. That I should remember that I am an individual apart from being someone's wife, and to consider if this is the most i can do. It kind of got me thinking. Will I be able to strike a balance working on a job i can relate to, yet be a supportive and understanding wife and a good mum (in the future) at the same time?

Tuesday, 1 November 2011

Happy Birthday Mum


Today I am missing my family badly. Today is my mum's birthday.. and its the first time I am not celebrating her birthday with her. And to make things worse, my bro and dad is not with her today too - My bro is working in Guangzhou, China currently and my Dad is traveling with his brother in China right now.

I miss you mum, Happy Birthday.